I have this neighbor whom I have been pretty close friends with since she moved here a few years ago. We have house sat for each other and gone to let each other's dogs out when the other one couldn't. We constantly borrow stuff from each other and talk about everything.
So, tonight I am sitting on my couch and I get a text from her that says, "I would appreciate it if you wouldn't go to my house without me knowing it. It is very disrespectful and rude."
Um, okay?!?! What the hell is that about???
She happens to be out of town right now, and another friend of ours in house sitting. I walked over with her last night because she didn't want to go alone. And she grabbed a handful of chips while we were there.
My neighbor continues to say, "I don't like you helping yourself to my things when I am not there." But I didn't!!!! So, I explain that to her. And she apologizes and whatnot, but really?!?! I would never care if she was like, hmmm I want a cookie, I wonder if Mrs. B has one, and came over and got it without me home. I know her well enough to give her a key to my house and I am not so petty to give two shits about her grabbing some food. Now if she went grocery shopping in my pantry, that might be a little different. But I didn't do either of those things, and two of our other friends were helping themselves to her food, and yet I am the only one who got bitched at. I know she is pregnant and emotional and all, but I just feel like this puts me on my place as far as our friendship is concerned. Maybe we aren't as close as I had thought.
Pregnancy hormones maybe? Sorry LB!
ReplyDeleteI'm with hmb up there! It's crappy and sucks when a good friend jumps to bad conclusions before giving you the benefit of the doubt (that she knows you deserve) but I'm hoping and thinking it was just a combination of instigation (???), hormones and a bad day!
ReplyDeletechin up girlie! Maybe you can come to see Eclipse with us Tomorrow??!
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ReplyDeleteBULL SH**!!!!! Just because she is preggers doesn't give her the right to be a raging bitch to anyone but her hubby!!!!! LOL...But no, seriously I would check that friendship right on out the door. As my Aunt always says "To the moon Alice" meaning "Go fu** yourself"
ReplyDeleteMore than likely as soon as she realized she was in the wrong, she probably started bawling her eyes out and thinking what a terrible person she is. I agree, that hormones probably got the best of her (not that I condone her actions!).
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